The Dove

  The

Salem

 Dove

 

NOVEMBER 2005

 

FROM THE PASTOR:

            We celebrate the national Thanksgiving Day in November. As Christians we should be saying thanks every day of our lives, but looking at our national day can be helpful. Thanksgiving is most readily spoken by people who have seen how fragile and vulnerable our human life is. When President Abraham Lincoln proclaimed a day of national thanksgiving in 1863, we were in the midst of a civil war. Very close to the day of thanksgiving that November, Lincoln gave the Gettysburg address in a cemetery. The turning point of the war had been reached at Gettysburg, but it would take almost two more years to conclude the war and a century almost to bind up the nation’s wounds.

            The pilgrims at Plymouth also gave thanks in the midst of hard times when life hung on the edge of death, and life was seen as a gift of God. When we see our own weakness and limits and the great gifts God has given, we are at our strength as stewards of God’s gifts, and thanks seems to just roll out of our souls in words and songs.

            When we think of the many gifts we have, three come to mind as important to remember: family, country, and church. When we look closer, all three of them need leaders with vision and good sense for life to flourish. In listening to some of the questions and answers in the confirmation of Chief Justice John Roberts, I heard some things that apply to all of us in our life as Christian citizens in families.

            There are many people around us – in church and family too - that want us to make important decisions on the basis of our personal opinions and likes or dislikes. They have no visions or principles beyond themselves and their own preferences. When Judge Roberts was asked about his personal feelings on the hot button issues of the day he said that was not the issue. What were important were the constitution and the present facts and evidence as they were placed beside the constitution. Case decisions could not be made ahead of time before the case was heard. (I hope I am reflecting his views accurately here.)

            This applies not only to a Supreme Court justice. This also applies to pastors and church leaders who take an oath of office too. Lots of people think pastors and church leaders simply make decisions on the basis of

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Salem  Lutheran  Church

10 McClellan Circle  -  Buffalo, New York 14220

Rev. David F. C. Wurster, Ph. D. – Pastor

Lois L. Jones, Director of Music                Ernelle L. Poinivas, Secretary

Stephen Jarmusz Sr., Custodian                Claire Carlson, ‘Dove’ Editor

Rev. Richard E. Blemaster, Pastor Emeritus

e-mail: salemoncircle@yahoo.com   website:  www.salembuffalo.com

= = =      Misson:  SALEM/Peace -  As the Father sent me I send you.      = = =

 Vision:  Preach – Teach – Heal – doing what Jesus does

 

 

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what feels right. Many do. But they are not called to do this. This is what activist judges and clergy do. A Lutheran pastor or church leader is called upon to know Christ, scripture, and the teaching of the church (the catechism is minimum) and to lead and make decisions as facts and evidence flow through life on the basis of the teaching of the church. He or she is called to make and live with decisions he or she sometimes does not like. The decision compass is not just a feeling inside but a living Lord speaking through the teaching of the church. This is true for pastor and lay leaders. But this gets even closer to home for all people. Some people think that being a family leader means to just make decisions that feel right. A Christian family leader is called upon to learn the teaching of the church, family wisdom and to regularly grow in faith and wisdom at the table of the living Lord. In this way, a family leader is not conformed to this age (of feel goodism) but transformed by the renewing of the mind to prove what the will of God is, the good and well pleasing and perfect. This means you can’t judge the specifics of a case with your 17 year old when the child is 13 years old. You are growing in the basics and must apply teaching to the evidence when the 17 year old case comes before you. This brings the comments of Judge Roberts close to home for us all. A good leader is ready to grow in knowledge and wisdom and patiently examine the evidence as presented in life. This includes a good family leader.

            Another thing the judge showed us at this point is how important it is to know who you are called to be and not to be what you are not called to be. A judge is not called to legislate or make law nor to be the chief executive of the land. So it is with leaders in the church and family. We pray God give us wisdom to be who we are called to be and not to intrude into the offices of others. A typical example of this intrusion is when someone intrudes upon a parent when the parent is disciplining a child. I remember once when my wife disciplined one of our children and one of our mothers countermanded her. That was an intrusion into another’s called office. With some trepidation I told that mother to stay out of it.

            So we give thanks to God at his time that he gives us the gifts of family, country and church and leaders in each. We continue to give him thanks for grace and life renewal in forgiveness and life that is so strong it’s eternal too.

            When you first read these words I should be on the other side of the world in Sri Lanka. As you know our church body and Lutheran World Relief called me (the second time this year) and asked if I would go minister to some of the pastors who are worn out working with the victims of the tsunami of last December. I will join a colleague in Minneapolis and we then fly to Tokyo to Singapore to Colombo and then into the country. We don’t know exactly what we will do in any detail. We will listen to people who have lost much and then pray the Spirit’s wisdom to respond with the message of our Lord’s hope. We can’t go with prepackaged programs and answers. We go with the faith and the teaching of the church catholic and listen to the people and then serve. (In some ways that sounds like Judge Roberts again.) I have a feeling we will come back (November 7th) with a growing sense of thanks for family, country, church and leaders. I will report back to the members of Salem and tell the story of the trip. I appreciate the leadership of Salem and ask for the prayers and blessings of you all as Jesus said, “Peace be with you, as the Father sent me, I send you!”

                                                                                                Peace and thanks,

                                                                                                Pastor Wurster

 

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BIBLE STUDY

 

A Bible Study  is at 1 pm on Tuesdays led by Sally McAlpine.  All are welcome.

 

A Bible Study led by Ruth Carr is on Thursdays at 9:30 am. All are welcome.

 

 

SUNDAY  MORNING  ADULT  BIBLE  CLASS

Faith, Stories and Prayers

Making peace with head, heart, tongue and both hands

 

Mission: Salem/ Peace – As the Father sent me, I send you.

Vision:  Preach, Teach, Heal/Care – doing what Jesus does

            Lutherans are people with One Lord and 3 books (Bible, Catechism, Hymnal)

Schedule may be revised for special topics and forums

 

            Each week we will choose a hymn, prayer and/or psalm to begin the class. Bring a favorite to class and we will use it.

 

Date                                         Bible                            Catechism

Nov. 6                                     John 8                          Lord’s Prayer Petition 2/3/4

Nov. 13                                   John 9 – Sign #5            Lord’s Prayer Petition 5/6

Nov. 20                                   John 10                        Lord’s Prayer Petition 7 Concl.

Nov. 27                                   John 11 – Sign #6            Baptism I

Dec. 4                                      John 12                        Baptism II

 

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THANKSGIVING WORSHIP SCHEDULE

 

      

 

 

The annual THANKSGIVING EVE SERVICE, sponsored by the South Buffalo Ecumenical Association, will be held at 7:30 pm on Wednesday, November 23 at Salem. We hope many will attend this community event to give thanks to God for another year of abundant blessings upon us all.

        Our THANKSGIVING DAY SERVICE will be held at 10:00 am on Thursday, November 24, with Holy Communion. As had been our tradition, we ask everyone to bring food items (as much as a grocery bag full, if possible) for the South Buffalo Community Table on Southside Avenue in Buffalo; and leave them in the narthex on the way into church. Cash gifts are desired and can be dropped in the offering. (Food and cash can be brought in before Thanksgiving Day, too, if you’ll be away for the holidays.)

        What a privilege we have to gather in church as a congregation to give thanks to God for another blessed year! Let’s all contribute through our presence, prayers and our generous offerings of food and cash for the South Buffalo Community Table, as well as for our own church!

        Generous thank offerings also will help us to meet our commitment and eliminate our deficits for the year. What better motive for doing THANKS-GIVING?

 

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DIRECTORY CHANGES

 

Mrs. Ethel Krawczyk,  5285 South Park Ave., Hamburg, NY 14075-1520

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

          Memorials and Gifts are recorded based on information from the control sheets complied by the counters each Sunday. Please note Memorials and Gifts may not be published in the Dove in the same month in which they are donated.

 

 

MEETINGS

 

YOUTH

The Youth met on Sunday, October 16th after service.  We kicked off the meeting with a pizza party before the music began.  Lynn Scarpine led a discussion of how prayer is incorporated in music; Gospel music, Christian Rock and the best yet, some of our design.  We broke up into four groups.  The groups then selected a passage from the Bible and set the words to music of their own choice.  Some groups took a familiar song and created their own words of prayer and praise.  Not a bad start.  From everyone’s comments, we will be trying this again in the future.

 

The Youth group participated in the Salem Roast Beef Dinner festivities.  Our Youth presented a “Theme Tray” table of 14 items, ranging from “Family Game Night” to a “Barbie Basket” to holiday items to sweet confections.  Congratulations to all of our winners and special thanks to all who supported us.  These creative baskets were donated by Kim & Russ Alessi, Carlson family, Carr family, Sue Gifford, Hoffmann family, Mark & Monica Thomas, Nancy Thomas, Paul & Dawn Thomas and an anonymous donor.

 

We are going to start a new feature for the youth and young at heart in this issue.  We want to keep the mind working, so your fun task is to take the ‘phrase of the month’ and create a many words as possible (at least 3 letters long).  We will award a prize for the (1) most words found and (2) the longest word found.  Separate prizes will be given for our youth 12th grade and lower and those young at heart (age 20+).  This month’s phrase is:

 

SERMON  ON  THE  MOUNT

 

Submit all entries to the Youth Leader by the second Sunday of each month by placing in his mailbox.  Winners will be notified and posted.  Good luck.

 

The next meeting will be held in November, but a date has not been set yet.  All youth are reminded we are asking for a canned good for the needy to share with others what they don’t have or are in need of.  The canned goods can be placed in the barrel in the narthex before service.  If others congregational members, who are young at heart, would like to contribute to this worthy cause, it would be greatly appreciated.   

Paul Thomas, Salem Lutheran Youth Leader

MEETINGS (con’t.)

 

WOMEN’S GUILD

 

            Our next meeting will be on November 8 at 12:00 noon. Bring your lunch. Coffee, tea and dessert will be provided by the committee.

            Thank you to all who provided baked goods, crafts and labor at our sale during the roast beef dinner on October 5th. A profit of $165.20 was made.               Fran Wiedemann, Vice President

 

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GOLDEN AGERS

 

            The next meeting of Salem Golden Agers is Thursday, November 3rd 2005. Please bring a bag lunch.  The next future meeting will be December 1st.

                        Norma Krug

 

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          National LWML President Linda Reiser has encouraged all LWML members to join their sisters in Christ throughout the country in PRAYER every Monday at 12 Noon.                                  Claire Carlson

 

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CHURCH COUNCIL POSITIONS NEEDED!!!

 

            Salem is looking to fill 3-year terms as of January 1, 2006

VICE PRESIDENT

TREASURER

MUSIC AND WORSHIP

New position: STEWARDSHIP (if approved by Voters in the Fall)

            If you have any questions or interest, please contact Mark Thomas.

                                                                                    Mark Thomas, Salem Council VP

 

        Please remember the deadline for the Dove is always the third Sunday of the month.  Articles may be placed in my basket in the church secretary’s office or email to patchtroop546@aol.com. Thank you.

                                                                                        Claire Carlson

 

Are You a Good Steward of Your Time?
How discovering your spiritual gifts benefit your time management.
by Dr. Thom Rainer

I find myself returning to 1 Corinthians 12-14 again and again in my ministry. These and the spiritual gifts passages in Ephesians 4:11-13 and Romans 12:6-8 are critical in our understanding of the proper stewardship of time.

Of all the contributions C. Peter Wagner made in the past, a major one was his discussion of the relationship between church growth and spiritual-gifts discovery.

Concerning time management and spiritual gifts, Wagner says, "While the church is subject to many principles of human organizational management, it is much more than a mere human organization. It is the Body of Christ. It is an organism with Jesus Christ as the Head and every member functioning with one or more spiritual gifts."

When a church functions according to spiritual gifts, the work of ministry is distributed to every member. No church member, including the leader, has an excessive burden.

Says Wagner, "God does not bring people into the Body of Christ as spectators. He expects them to participate in the life and work of the church just as the various members of our own physical bodies contribute to the well-being of the whole."

Spiritual gifts discovery has two primary benefits in the area of time management. It frees the church leader to minister according to his giftedness and passions. And it empowers the people of the church to be in ministry which might otherwise fall in the overloaded hands of "hired help."

Spiritual Gifts Discovery by the Church Leader
As I visit and speak with church leaders, I am amazed at how few know their own spiritual gifts. Meeting the needs of others is next to impossible until we leaders know ourselves.

 

Are You a Good Steward of Your Time? (con’t.)

For example, as a pastor, I discovered counseling was one of my weaknesses. Two prominent gifts I have are administration and evangelism. But the rest of my spiritual gift mix is not conducive to a counseling ministry. This awareness led me to take some steps that greatly increased my personal ministerial efficiency.

First, I realized I had a tendency to place counseling responsibilities on the back burner since my gifts were not in this area. But as a pastor I could not relinquish all counseling responsibilities. So I made special efforts to make myself available and open to my people. I could not give them the impression that I did not care for them or that I did not want to see them.

Second, I was honest with my church members that counseling was not my strength. I always had an open door for them, but in the long-term, others could help them more than I could. And that statement brings me to my final step.

Thirdly, I delegated counseling responsibilities when possible. Two laypersons were trained and equipped to handle a large portion of the counseling load in the church. A staff minister with spiritual gifts more compatible with counseling handled much of this ministry. Finally, I referred some members to Christian psychologists in our area.

The point is simple. I knew my spiritual gifts, and I knew where I was not gifted, so I made plans to enhance my strengths and compensate for my weaknesses.

Spiritual Gifts Discovery by the Church
Little more needs to be said about the importance of spiritual gifts discovery by the people in the church. From a time-management viewpoint, the more people are involved in ministry, the more time a church leader has to do the tasks God has called him to do.

To unleash the church, you must create an awareness of spiritual gifts and a climate for ministry by spiritual gifts, and provide training and equipping so many can best use their gifts for the glory of God.

Thom S. Rainer is dean of the Billy Graham School at Southern Baptist Theological Seminary in Louisville, KY The author of 14 books, he also serves as president of the Rainer Group and Church Central Associates.

Copyright © 2003 by Dr. Thom Rainer. Used by permission. www.ChurchCentral.com

Article submitted by the Salem Stewardship Committee.  Our team meets monthly and is looking for ways for congregational members to be more involved and more enthused in the activities of the church.  Please read this article and provide us your feedback.  We want to hear what you are feeling and what you think the church body as a whole can do different.  Talk to us, write down your comments (privately if wanted), BUT WE WANT TO HEAR FROM YOU.  Any member of our team will sit and listen (and learn).  Contact Jim Carr, Sharon Croston, Paul Thomas, Ray Yox, Marjorie Zawada or Pastor Wurster.

 

THANK YOU

 

        Thank you for all the prayers and cards I received from my church family during my recent illness. God bless you all.              Leola Colvin

 

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PRE-SERVICE HYMN SING

 

          On November 13 at 10:15 am, we will be having a pre-service hymn sing. We will be singing 3-4 of your requests from the Lutheran Worship Hymnal and the Salem Supplemental Hymnal. This is a wonderful way to prepare yourself for worship. If you have a special request that is not in either hymnal, see Joanne Kushka.

                                    Joanne Kushka

 

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CHRISTMAS CARD EXCHANGE

 

            It’s that time again! Our annual Christmas Card Exchange program will be starting November 27. I am asking that all donations be given to me by December 18, to give me time to shop and deliver the food before Christmas. If you have any questions, please see me or call 823-8461.

                                                Joanne Kushka

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

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HANDICAPPED PARKING

 

            Please note that only those with handicapped parking tags are allowed to park in the designated handicapped spaces in the church parking lot.  Thank you for your cooperation.

 

 

 

 

B A N N S   Published

          “Peter Robert Gittere and Kimberly Sue Zeltman wish to enter the holy estate of matrimony according to God’s ordinance. They desire that common Christian prayer be made on their behalf so that they may begin it in God’s name and prosper therein. And should anyone have anything to say against it, let him or her speak in time or afterward hold his peace. God grant them His blessing. Amen.”

          All are invited to the wedding, a public service of worship on Friday afternoon, December 16, 2005.

                                       Pastor Wurster

 

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ROAST BEEF DINNER REPORT

 

            WOW! What an exciting time we had on Wednesday, October 5, 2005!  A lot of things were happening at the dinner and in the bazaar room. Not the least of which was the dishwasher “blowing a gasket” and everything having to be washed by hand. God bless the men and women who pitched right in to clean up the mess! Attendance was up, more dinners were sold, including take-outs, and every organization who participated in the bazaar made a profit. It was a lot of fun and hard work but the bottom line is that we made $2,038.00 (including matching funds from Thrivent) for the Handicap Access Fund. Thank you to everyone who helped in any way. We especially appreciate Carolyn Feider and her husband Mark who sliced all the meat, Steve Jarmusz who helped us through electrical problems, Mel Beyers for making a new sign out front and the members of the committee who put in long hours – Shirley Banas, Sally McAlpine, Ethel Berkhoudt, Norrine Nagel, Delores Landwehr and Ruth Carr.

                                                Norrine Nagel

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

STEPHEN SERIES MINISTRY

        One to One Christian care giving ministry system – The Stephen Series provides congregations with the structure, training and resources to set up and administer a complete system for lay care-giving ministry in the congregation.

        Lay caregivers (called Stephen Ministers) provide one-to-one Christian care to the bereaved, hospitalized, terminally ill, separated, divorced, unemployed, relocated and others facing a crisis or life challenge. Stephen Ministry helps pastors enhance caring ministry by ensuring that quality follow-up care is available for as long as it is needed.

How does it work?

1. Congregations pay a one-time fee to enroll in the Stephen Series. This provides access to the training, resources and ongoing support of Stephen Ministries.

2. The pastors and lay leaders who will direct Stephen Ministry in the congregation attend a seven-day Leader’s Training Course where they are equipped to serve as Stephen Ministers.

3. Stephen Leaders recruit, select and train lay persons in the congregation to serve as Stephen Ministers.

4. Stephen Leaders assign Stephen Ministers to those who have requested a caregiver. Stephen Ministers meet with their care receivers for about an hour once a week for as long as the person needs this level of care.

5. Stephen Ministers participate twice a month in supervision and continuing education with their Stephen Leaders.

        Enrolled congregations continue to implement steps two through five as often as they desire, making Stephen Ministry a vital and lasting ministry in the congregation.

 

“Since we began Stephen Ministry 15 years ago, I sleep better at night. Right now, for example, I know there are 23 people receiving care – very high quality

 

Stephen Series Ministry (con’t.)

 

care on a weekly basis from our Stephen Ministers. As a pastor, I simply don’t have another 23 hours a week to provide that care myself. So it’s a joy and comfort to know that people in need are receiving that care from our Stephen Ministers.”

Rev. Arnold Frank, Christ Church Lutheran, Phoenix, Arizona

 

With a team of dedicated Stephen Ministers, our church can reach and care for many more people than I ever could alone. This is the third congregation that I’ve helped to begin Stephen Ministry – and it is well worth the investment.”

Rev. Dr. Keith L. Riddle, First Presbyterian Church, Fort Lauderdale, Florida

 

“Stephen Ministry allows us to provide aftercare to those who have been through a crisis and to nurture and support people we otherwise would not be able to care for. It is a quiet ministry with a powerful Christ-centered presence.”

Rev. Debra Angell, St. Gabriel the Archangel Episcopal Church, Cherry Hills Village, Colorado

 

How long has Stephen Ministries St. Louis been in existence?

It was incorporated as a not-for-profit religious and educational organization in 1975.

 

How many congregations are involved in Stephen Ministry?

More than 8,000 congregations worldwide are enrolled in the Stephen Series, with about 400 new ones enrolling each year.

 

What size of congregations are involved?

Stephen Series congregations range in size from fewer than 100 to more than 10,000 members.

 

How many denominations are represented?

Congregations from more than 100 denominations are using the Stephen Series, including Methodists, Presbyterians, Baptists, Lutherans, Episcopalians, Roman Catholics, Disciples of Christ, Churches of God, Assembly of God, Nazarenes, Reformed, Evangelical Free and many nondenominational churches.

                             Rich Landseadel

 

 

            BIRTH ANNOUNCEMENT

 

            Jack and Noelle Rennolds announce the birth of their daughter, Leah Grace on August 17th 2005. The Sacrament of Baptism was performed on September 11th at First Congregational Church, Java Village, New York. Leah is the granddaughter of Norm & Gloria LeBlanc.

 

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ANNUAL PAVS BRUNCH MEETING

Sunday, November 5, 2005

 

11 am – 1:30 pm

Hickman Hall, Pioneer Camp

9324 Lake Shore Rd., Angola

RSVP 549-1420

$10 per person

 

Pioneer Ministry Update, Volunteer Recognition and PAVS Elections

 

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SOUTH BUFFALO ECUMENICAL ASSOCIATION (SBEA) MEETINGS

 

November 10 – St. Teresa RC – 12 Noon – Network of Biblical Storytelling

December 8 – Good Shepard Baptist – 12 Noon –

Christmas party – gifts for the needy

January 12 – site TBA – 12 Noon – Franciscan Prison Ministry

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FREE COMPUTER CLASSES, GED CLASSES AND ENGLISH LANGUAGE INSTRUCTION

Adult Education Division,

 Buffalo Public Schools

 

20 convenient locations

 

register at:

Adult Learning Center

389 Virginia St.

Buffalo, NY 14201

 

Mr. Craig  - 888-7088 ext. 101

UpSkill.org

See church office for more information.

 

SOUTH PARK UNITED METHODIST CHURCH ANNUAL ELECTION DAY LUNCHEON AND DINNER

 

Tuesday, November 8th

 

Luncheon: 12 Noon – 1:30 pm.

Adults - $4.50 Children (3-12) - $2.50

 

Dinner:  4 – 7 pm

Adults - $7 Children (3-12) - $4 , under 3 – free

 

Tickets, call 822-1255 or 627-3112

Take outs available.

Bazaar with Crafts, Baked Goods and Attic Treasures

                        Pastor Ken Babcock

 

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